Most people really don't have a clue what they desire. Well maybe you think you do, but most are too scared to take the steps to what they really want in life. Or they want those things but when they start working towards those things they really desire. They realize it's a lot of work and don't ever follow through.
Anything worth having, is worth the hard work and time to get what you want. Most people are also influenced by what people have to say about them or comments in a negative way. Don't listen to them or anyone for that matter. Yes, that is harsh and you need to stay focused on what you want. Not what others think you can and can not do.
These are your desires and no one else's so…dream…dream big! Visualize with pictures and FEEL what is will be like when you are in possession of what you desire. Don't wait for the money to come in to start living the life you want. Do it now and get out and live that life. For example, if you want a new car because your car is a piece of crap. Then go test drive a car so you can feel it, smell it, and make it a reality. Don't worry about the sales people and their sales tactics. Want to live in a new house, then go out and view a few properties. This is the kind of activities that will get you a step closer to what you want.
Are you willing to do what it takes to live the life you desire and deserve? Then live it, because it change in a heartbeat!